Monday, February 22, 2016

The Next Step

There have been many moments in my marriage that make my heart swell with pride when it comes to my husband.  One of the top few would be the time he spent sacrificing for you and I during his tours in the Army, watching him form the beautiful bond with my first born and now our second, and his full-hearted commitment to Williamson County and its citizens. 

Over the past couple of years, Rick and I have had to start thinking about the next step in his career.  We have committed to the Swift Water Rescue team, the Dive Team and SMT as a family.  But my husband doesn’t settle.  He has to challenge himself.  This is one of the things I love about him.  He needs more.  He needs more for his own self-worth but mainly for his wife and two boys.  We knew the next step would be to put in for sergeant.  We have been considering this for that past couple of years on and off but off course that comes with sacrifice.  As does most things when it comes to law enforment.  Our boys are young and he didn’t want to miss out on anything.  We also knew that meant moving to nights and we all know that comes with a different set of challenges in a family. 

The time came a few weeks ago.  A position was advertised for Patrol Sergeant.  We ultimately decided that it was time to put in.  We didn’t know if it would happen, but we knew that whatever did happen that it would be in God’s plan for our family.  The competition was tough.  A long list of respected and qualified gentleman had put in.  He knew what he was up against.  The past  couple of weeks I had the most beautiful opportunity to witness my husband inform our oldest son what he wanted and needed to do for our family.  He watched him put every ounce of his time into his commitment.  I have to say that this was the best part of it all.  We spoke to him about the changes that may happen and he understood that he would have to make sacrifices if Daddy actually got the position.  He watched his father over the next few weeks study and prepare, study and prepare, study and prepare. 

The day came and he walked to his Daddy and wished him “Good Luck”.  I didn’t know what was going to happen.  I put my trust in God.  Either way, our son was able to learn a valuable lesson in the process.  If you want something, you go for it.  Go for it with your whole heart.  If you get it then praise the Lord for your blessing.  But if you don’t, you get back up and try again. 

We got word this morning that Rick was promoted.  I couldn’t be more proud of my husband.  He wanted it.  He worked for it.  And he got it.  I cannot think of anyone more deserving.  Patrol Sgt. at 36 years young.  I know this means moving to nights and that it will come with its own set of challenges.  I am sure you all will be hearing from me soon about all that. But like we always do, we will get through it. 



To my husband, I will never take you for granted.  I know that everything you do, you do for us.  I will always be the support you need.  I love you.


And just because I rarely get all mushy and I could barely write this post because it was hard to see through watery eyes, here are a few things LE related that make me giggle…

·         My husband didn’t make the laws, he just enforces them
·         The left arm tan line
·         Sending him to run my errand that involves a picking up texas sized donut
·         Scarying the hell outta my friends/family with the police knock
·         Making people think that I am evading the police when my husband pulls up behind me
·         How my boss thinks I have unlimited access to the evidence room…he was a 60s kid
·         The thought of my husband rounding up a cow in the middle of 79

Bye for now, loves.